EP: 199 - Abundance Disruptors- Things People Do to Mess Up Their Love, Money, and Happiness
In this week’s episode we talk about Abundance Disruptors- Things People Do to Mess Up Their Love, Money and Happiness
1:34 Boil Things Down
Sometimes we need a little pep talk.
Yeah, you need a little pep talk every once in a while.
We're so busy and our heads get cluttered up with so many things. So when you can boil things down to very simple steps that can reset you, it's so powerful.
So if you haven’t listened to Episode 198 yet, listen to it. It's all about deciding what kind of day you're going to have. In today’s episode we're going to look at where you might disrupt that.
2:17 Understanding and Getting Back In Flow
This is a bit of a companion episode and I call it abundance disruptors.
Sometimes I refer to these with my clients and students as manifestation disruptors. Because here's the deal, the manifestation one on one is you are always manifesting. If you follow me or Nick or you've done any sort of law of attraction work before, you know that we can get very purposeful and set our vision, our goals, our ideals and do all these things. Then, very quickly and easily, humans disrupt those.
We want to understand where we disrupt it, and then what to do to get back in flow.
3:14 Doubt Is The Big Disrupter
It's really about finding your frequency where you're as receptive and as clear as possible. So it's sort of like that sweet spot of your frequency of your vibe.
What can happen with the disruptors is we get excited as humans about all kinds of things, and then very quickly, what will come into the mind is, “Oh my gosh, but how am I going to do that? Is it going to work? What if it doesn't work? How am I going to feel? What are people going to think of me if I actually do get this great thing or I build my business to a certain level?”, there are all these little voices of doubt that come in and disrupt your abundance.
It starts with doubt.
Doubt is the big disrupter. And here's what's important, that doubt, those voices that you hear, I like to think of them as these voices on either side of you where you can just tell them “No, stop, not right now. Go away. I'm not listening to you”. You have the ability to come into an abundant lens, a clean and clear lens, and re-decide and choose what you're going to believe.
5:12 Our Perception and Expectations Become Disruptors
Yeah and I feel like a big place where people get off is the meaning that they place on things.
What do you mean by that?
We go into our day, and we have an idea about what we think it's supposed to be in order to be productive, or we have a goal and we have an idea about the things that are supposed to happen that indicates success. And, inevitably, something is different. So we take that very narrow scope of what we thought was success or what we wanted or the way it was supposed to be and then we make everything outside of that wrong, bad, or a failure.
So it's our perception of whatever those things are that actually becomes one of the disruptors, which like you said, leads right back into the doubt and thinking you must have done something wrong.
6:12 Field of Abundance
Another big disrupter for your abundance is resentment and jealousy. “Well, it worked for them, but it never works for me”, and then there's anger.
All of these things tear into your field of abundance as if they were these knives and they rip into your wealth container.
8:50 Deciding to Reset
So there's a couple of things that I wanted to share. During the day, when you find that you're allowing these disruptors to come in and put down your vibe, diminish your dreams, etc. What can you do that lifts yourself up? What's the reset?
There is a way again, deciding to reset. Get back in alignment with your vision and your choice and stay there.
It's right there, we just have to make the choice to do it.
15:06 The Solution
What we want to do is build awareness and build the presence, and stay in your own lane. If we're staying in our own lane, and we're holding our thoughts and our feelings and our actions towards our vision, we're going to get a lot done.
This is a much more elegant way and much more ease filled way of dealing with those kinds of things. And, this is the illuminated thought for the day, the solution never lies in the emotion. The solution always lies in the decision.
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